Monday, March 25, 2013

WHEN YOUR CHILD IS DEPRESSED


With timely treatment and active participation of parents, children suffering from depression can have a speedy recovery and lead a healthy adult life.


CHILDREN have none of the everyday stresses that we adult have. But the truth is, childhood id far from being without pressure in these days of changing lifestyle. Nuclear family , loneliness, academic pressure, etc. all are taking a toll on the young, impressionistic minds,. Hence, the incidence of childhood depression is on rise.



The incidence of childhood depression in India is showing a riseing trend . Underlying chemical changes in brain, coupled with external factors such as parental conflict, loss of a dear one, physical or sexual abuse and academic pressure are some main reasons responsible for this malady.”
But you don't hear about these kids as parents do not take them to a psychiatrist or even a a counselor. They still feel it will bring shame to the family, say experts


Depression hasn't spared the innocent young minds. Unfortunately, identifying and treating this disease has been given a step-motherly treatment, perhaps because we as parents are reluctant to acknowledge that our children could be susceptible to depression at such a young age,”
what can you as a parent, teacher or other concerned adult do to help?
The most important thing you can do is to realize that children can become depressed just as adults and you should promptly seek out help if you see the signs of depression in a child. In fact, according to some international statistics, one in eight adolescents is thought to have depression. Since childhood and adolescence are marked with changes, many parents assume that the attitudes, thoughts and feelings of their children are just stages that they will grow of. In the process, they often mistake vital signs of depression as growing-up angst and hence ignore.

SIGNS YOU SHOULD LOOK OUT FOR:
| Persistent sadness
| Hopeless, irritability and getting easily agitated
| Withdrawing from friends, family and even things they once enjoyed doing, such as   participating in sports or doing a hobby
| Missing or skipping school or secrease in school performance
| Indecisive, forgetful and distracted
| Fell guilty over the way he or she feels and has low self-esteem




If you perceive your child to be possibly experiencing depression, try and speak to the school counselor or a psychotherapist for proper counseling and medication, without being conscious of what the people or society at large would say. As parents we need to be sensitive to our children's emotions and insecurities, we must talk to them with full sincerity and look into their eyes as we do so.
Time and again,we must reassure them that we love them irrespective of their achievements or failures.”
Children who suffer from major depression are more likely to suffer from repeated bouts of depression. With proper medication, monitoring and/ or therapy, a child can be lifted from the dark. But first, you have to keep a vigil on your child's behavior and ensure the lines of communication open with your child.


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